Yes many time we feel lonely but in reality , we always remain alone. The fact is being alone itself is a strength. Many says that they are missing someone. The only question that I would like to ask is until when ? Further I say till your last breath? or till the necessity is at its end?
None will stand by you in every step of life, as the time passes people will change according to their needs and moods. So be alone, time and again a question like how to be alone ? pops up in the mind . The answer is simple, loneliness is not in outerworld. It sujected to the inner world. Here I am not talking about the sprituality. Because, spirtuality is a different concept.Thus being alone means self preservation. Its like keeping a mind set which will not make you feel alone. Be yourself. Again you may question that, How can anyone be alone without accompanied by another human beings ? If you connect with humans, the chances of getting disappointed is high. For example if you connect to a boy/girl, a small change in their behaviour leads to dissapointment, this is mainly due to expecting things from them. So get connected with you & your good habits.
Thus, it can be said that, 'change' is the only 'constant' in this world. Be true to your heart and Soul. Except less from others. none will stay at the end of the day. Never believe that some one will stay with you forever. Believing alike is stupidity. Learn to enjoy being you. If you Enjoy with yourself , you are not going to loose anyone. So never bother assume that some one will stay. Be Gentle, kind and love yourself.
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